Here’s what they had to say about their lives on the bottom… And so, I spent the last couple of days asking a few of them. Sure, some might call me a power bottom, but that term is just a way to market yourself to tops. In my mind, anyone with the courage to call themselves a bottom should be ready to get fucking pounded. I’ve been told I have amazing muscle control in my ass that essentially allows me to milk a dude while he’s inside me. In that regard, pain is a useful bit of information because it lets you know you’re doing something wrong. Pain says, “add more lube,” “slow down,” “take a deep breath” or any number of other adjustments. The key is to find the way that taking it up the ass feels awesome for you and to perfect it.
For me, that means the angle is hitting the prostate the lube is doing its job the leverage is good there’s no bad pain and the muscles are relaxed - carnal perfection.Īs for upkeep, as a lifelong bottom, I have special shower enema attachments. I travel with a device that can transform a hotel shower into a douche and a pocket nozzle I can slap on a standard water bottle. Sometimes, when douching, water can go up too far in the colon, which causes cramping and sometimes makes its presence known at an inopportune moment. That’s something everyone goes through until you learn to understand what clean feels like for yourself.
